Leah Klungness, co-author of The Complete Single Mother, states that post-divorce dating can be stressful for children.
Don’t assume that kids will understand the need for a “crazy phase” of dating.
Rather than planning a long visit, it’s best to have a brief, casual meeting with few expectations.
Another important consideration when introducing your kids to a new love interest is their age.
On the other hand, I will point out that his younger brother wanted me home and available only to the two of them, though I doubt he would admit as much.
Meeting in an informal setting may help your kids feel more relaxed."Letting your adult life revolve around your child's is actually very hard on your child." Adult one-on-one interaction is an important ingredient to successful parenting.It allows you time to be a person as well as a parent, to rejuvenate, and to find help and friendship.One of the most common questions divorced parents ask me is: When should I introduce my new partner to my children?My best answer is to take your time dating after divorce and don’t introduce your new love to your kids if you are dating casually.Many single parents avoid the whole question of dating by devoting all their time outside of work to their children.