Did you ever wonder after a date why he didn’t call back? That’s a lot of pressure to put on yourself (and him) on a first date.Did you ever think you had a great time, but were shocked to discover that he didn’t feel the chemistry? You’re picking up on every subtle clue and extrapolating it to a greater meaning.If it’s your first date with a guy you know well or have been flirting with for quite some time, the sexual tension is already poised to explode. If he’s a shy guy or just doesn’t know if it’s OK to make the move, give him the signals.
It’s important to develop a personal rapport before you take it to the next level.
It will also keep that end-of-night moment from being awkward because he probably doesn’t know what to do either.
A quick smack is fine, or maybe two or three seconds, depending on the impression you want to give. If you kiss any longer, he may have you in a full clench that you can’t escape without dampening the mood.
The casual sweeping of her shoulders as you help her with her coat, or her response when you brush against her hand in the popcorn bag or touch the small of her back as you guide her to the table provides plenty of clues.
If she pulls away at all, then slow down a bit and take some more time.